Reblog with a photo of you as a child.
lmao were you a ginger baby? it all makes sense now.
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“Who do you like in the Twilight cast?”
Lea Michele: Kristen Stewart! She’s HOT, totally!
Unpopular Opinion? I think this is accurate.
Don’t get me wrong, rape is a detestable thing.
But this is not rape. This woman goes into the bar with short shorts, gets drunk and starts flirting with men. When you flirt with someone, and then have sex, that is not rape. That is consensual sex.THANK YOU. Look, rape is atrocious and wrong, always, and this isn’t funny, or some kind of laughing matter. It is, however, extremely accurate. Consensual sex which a girl (or guy) later regrets IS. NOT. RAPE. If you can’t hold your alcohol, and as such, are worried about what might happen while you’re drunk, don’t drink! Or maybe you just don’t want to be hit on? How about dressing and acting in a way that shows the people around you you’re not a stupid whore, and to treat you accordingly?
These things are simple, yet 21st century western culture - and especially American culture - teaches women that they can do whatever they want, and the rules & consequences don’t apply to them. That’s not true, and it’s disgusting.
For example: “Slut shaming” is bad? Um, last time I checked, “slut” was a pejorative, not a badge of honor. Ladies, if you’re acting like a no-class slut, you should be ashamed. Should you run around calling girls sluts if they dress or act inappropriately? Of course not! But neither should you pat them on the back, hand them a Smirnoff, and tell them what they’re doing is ok, because it isn’t. Of course, that’s another unpopular view, but that doesn’t make it any less truthful.
Oh, and one more thing… “My rapist doesn’t know he’s a rapist”? Seriously? This girl is an idiot. I’m betting he “doesn’t know” because you “weren’t raped”.
tl;dr: This girl is full of shit. Feminism is a cancer. Actions have consequences.
IN WHAT WAY is this image “extremely accurate”? You have absolutely no idea if she consented. Dressing any which way is not an invitation to be hit on. Have you thought maybe a girl might wear short shorts just because she wants to? Flirting is not an invitation or consent to sex. Being drunk means you can’t give consent, alcohol impairs decision making and comprehension. If she passed out soon after, does it seem to you like she had all mental faculties available to give full consent?
Who are you to police a woman’s sexuality as ‘inappropriate’? Please, explain to me why she should feel guilty or ashamed for having sexual feelings and exploring and exhibiting them in a way that does not conform to your expectations. As long as she is happy and healthy, no-one should give a shit. Your view is unpopular because it is incorrect, not to mention appalling.
So yes, women can do whatever they want, as long as its legal and not hurting anyone. Being raped IS NOT A CONSEQUENCE of them dressing a certain way. Rape is a consequence of rapists being disgusting humans. What part of that does not get through to you? A woman is not responsible for anyone else’s control.
A culture that thinks how a woman dresses dictates how men can treat her, it’s called a “rape culture,” and it’s perpetrated by crap like yours. It doesn’t matter how they dress, YOU still need to control yourself, and not try to control them. It seems you still need to recognize their humanity, their personhood, and their right to not be controlled by men.
In other words, grow the fuck up man.
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